Copying an iTunes Library

According to Apple my iTunes Music Library can be found on my iMac hard drive at ~/Music. It isn't there.
How do I :
i) find the Library
ii) Copy it from iMac to MBP if I am running two versions of OS X (Snow Leopard on the iMac, El Capitan on the MBP) and two versions of iTunes (11.4 on the iMac and 12.4.1 on the MBP)
I can run both on El Capitan should that make mattters easier.